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March 1, 2016, 2:29 PM

Brother for Sale



     A lady decided to sell her sewing machine, and it was made by “Brother”, (I have a Brother printer at home). So, she decides to do something  reasonable. She placed a classified ad in her local newspaper under the heading, "Miscellaneous For Sale" and "Items under $50," she bought several lines in the want ad section.

     The advertisement didn't come out exactly as intended. Somewhere along the way from purchase, to copy editing, to printing, the words "sewing machine" got lost. So she wound up offering a "BROTHER" for sale! Now wouldn’t you know, she has two brothers, and insists she wouldn't part with either one of them. Now my sister, Patty has 4 brothers and I believe today she would opt to keep us all, but a few years ago…..well that’s another article for another time. 

            Anyway, the want ad in the paper must have raised some eyebrows. And, it got some responses. One person called her and was given the corrected information – that it was a sewing machine rather than a person on the sales block. "Thank you!" was the quick response, and the caller hung up. Another person called and wanted to know if the price was negotiable!

     Have you ever been misunderstood? Been guilty of poor communication? Had a key word dropped from or added to your message? Been judged harshly by someone who read a false motive into something you said or did?

     Sometimes misunderstandings can be simply cleared up with better information. At other times, the person who misjudged a situation catches on, feels foolish, and takes the initiative. Sometimes there is nothing to be done – except try to go on with your life, without bitterness.

     Jesus knows about being misunderstood. His home life, for example, was less than ideal because his own brothers made fun of the notion that his life had a “divine mission”.

     When he preached in Nazareth, his boyhood home, the people dismissed him as “a nobody.” "Isn't this the carpenter's son?" they asked.

     He must have felt terribly alone when people misread, misjudged and misunderstood him. The big one, the icing on the cake if you will, happened when he was betrayed by one of his friends and left to be judged by a Roman bureaucrat who was clueless to understand a kingdom "not of this world." In that swirling mess, he told his apostles: "You will all leave me; yet I am not alone, for my Father is with me" (John 16:32).

     When misunderstanding leaves you abandoned, God’s presence with you, is the secret to survival.

     Of the brother-for-sale episode, the paper ran a corrected ad. One of her brothers said, "it’s okay. I needed a good laugh."

     Boy I wish every misunderstood situation would have so happy an ending.

     Have a great week!

Philip.




January 26, 2016, 12:00 AM

He lives!



     I have given the message and attended lots of funerals over the past twenty years. I have buried some friends, some family members, and some people I hardly knew.      

     One of the toughest was a four year old little boy who choked while eating.  I was called to the hospital first to help deal with the emergency, and then to help the family with their grief. I had never met them before. Overcome with grief, the mother and father needed someone to talk with them through the obvious shock and grief. I remember praying, asking God to help me say something that might help them. I told them they could see their little boy again. I believe that because He lives.

     I remember Ben, nearly 90 years on this earth—kind of rough, no really rough around the edges. Ben died with great faith. His younger brother, Baxter couldn’t make the long trip to Alaska from North Carolina for the funeral. Baxter and I spoke on the phone today; he remembered what I said many years ago. Baxter would see his brother again. Ben died telling me to tell him, don’t be sad, and put your trust in God.

     Buzz was an anchor for a whole generation. He died 18 years ago next month. I remember so clearly, it was the first time I stood beside a grave and truly wished it was me there and not him. I was barely able to speak at his service. I look back today and remembered what I told my family and all his friends that windy day on the South Plains. He will live again, and I believe that because He lives.

     I told all of these people their loved ones will live again. Every time I’ve said that is because of what God did when he called Jesus out of the tomb. We don’t have to wait until death to let the hope of resurrection make a difference in life. Too many Christians think the resurrection is only about life after death. Unless you’re planning checking out right now, make His resurrection all about life before we die. The resurrection of Jesus is certainly about eternity, but it must also transform the way we live our lives today! Nurture your relationships in a new way, because He lives. Face your health struggles, as devastating as they might be, with a new hope, because He lives. Put you financial woes in God's hands; make better decisions today and tomorrow, because He lives.

His resurrection is about life today, and forever! Jesus said; I have come that they may have life, and have it abundantly.

Paul wrote in Romans 8; And if the Spirit of him who raised Jesus from the dead is living in you, he who raised Christ from the dead will also give life to your mortal bodies through his Spirit, who lives in you. 

All because He Lives, have a great week!

 

Philip



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January 19, 2016, 12:00 AM

I really need some help!



     It seems to happen to me at least occasionally. It did again yesterday. The question, “now where do you preach?” When I tell them, I can almost predict the answer. “Oh, ya’ll don’t believe in music” or some variation of our differences in worship.

     Now this is not an article on correct worship practices, but I do find it troubling when folks associate us with things other than Christ. I’d much rather someone ask, “Aren’t ya’ll the ones who feed the homeless? Care for the orphans? Run the prison ministry? Love their neighbor? Get along so well with those you disagree with?”

     We could discuss the worship practices of the church for hours, (and I have). But I have finally come to understand this, no matter what there will always be lots of folks who disagree with me on lots of things. The question for me, and I hope for everyone else, is how do I respond when faced with doctrinal matters that some classify as issues and issues that others deem doctrine? I’m really trying here!

     First, respond righteously. Responding in anger, (guilty here) or arrogance, (and here) often negates the cause of Christ. I must refuse to give into and respond with anger because I believe someone is wrong. Even if they are! Fighting with my brothers will extinguish any light that we both should have in this world. Remember, it takes two to fight.

     Second, build bridges. Instead of attacking, gossiping, or thinking poorly of my brother or sister, why not offer time to sit down with a cup of coffee and find out why we might see some things differently. Ask questions. Search the Scripture with an open heart and be willing to win a friend, especially if you can’t come to the same conclusion.

     Who am I to say that those who have come to different conclusions about some things, can’t be servants of the Master. That really is His call, not mine. We need to remember that just because it’s different, doesn’t always mean it’s wrong.

     Christ must be our example. When the disciples were aggravated about those working in the name of Jesus, but who weren’t part of their group, they took matters straight to the Man. You can almost see the twelve stomping their way to Jesus, ready to let him know what those other folks were up to. Those folks hadn’t been living with Jesus, walking where he walked, and watching what he did. They were outsiders, and here when Jesus could have prohibited or chastised them, he doesn’t. Instead, He offers grace and encouragement, “Do not stop him, for the one who is not against you is for you” (Luke 9:50). I need that lesson.

     Our mission isn’t to defend the Gospel, but to simply proclaim it by our words and the way we love God, Christ, and others. The reaction we give to our brothers and neighbors has to be the first statement of that love.

     There are always going to be people we disagree with on issues and doctrine.  However, how we disagree is just as important as the things we disagree about. We can never allow anything to set aside the grace that we have received. We all need it because we are all wrong. When I don’t give it, I act like I don’t need it. If I don’t need it, Christ died for nothing.

 “I do not set aside the grace of God, for if righteousness could be gained through the law, Christ died for nothing!" Gal. 2:21

Philip

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December 15, 2015, 2:55 PM

He is the reason.



     The center of the civilized world in the first century was Rome. During those days, the Romans mistakenly believed “their world” was the center of the universe. They began a mid-winter celebration called Saturnalia, which meant the return of the invincible sun. We call it the winter solstice, when the days begin to get longer. I think their celebration traditions will sound familiar. Wreaths, to praise the sun for its trip around the earth, trees were brought inside and decorated with small candles to represent the light given by the sun. Gifts were exchanged and the Romans made the mistake many have made, and continue to make, worshiping the created rather than the Creator.

     In the first century a few Christians tried desperately to move the focus from the sun, to the Son. They spent the festival telling their children and others about the arrival of the Invincible Son of God. They placed wreathes in their home, not to celebrate the suns trip around the earth, but to contemplate the promise the Son made to return to earth someday. When those first century Christians placed trees in their home, they used it to tell about the Son’s willingness to die on a tree for our sins, and the lights? Well He was and is the “Light of the World”. The greatest gift of the gift giving was the door it opened, the telling of the greatest Gift ever given. It was a great time to honor God’s Son, rather than the sun.

     By 325 A.D. something slowly had happened. In the Roman world, and soon, across the whole world, what was started by a few Christians had changed the holiday season. It was even made official, no longer a festival called Saturnalia, but one called Christmas. 

     In the 19th century a few Christians stood and opposed Christmas. The argument; no one knows the exact date of His birth. Now in the first century those Christians didn’t set the day on December 25th because they thought that was the day He was born. They understood the DATE DOESN"T MATTER. I for one am thankful for those first century believers and their thoughtful, tactful and very effective way of being light in their culture.

     It will be a sad day if in our lifetime; we unwittingly became instrumental in removing the focus on the birth of the Christ, giving the greatest holiday in our culture and world back to the pagans. Can you imagine a place where laws forbidding nativity scenes being placed in public places are enacted? Can you imagine a place where schools don’t allow our children to sing songs that tell of the birth of the Son? Can you imagine a place where the entire emphasis is placed on only the secular side of Christmas? It’s not a question of can I imagine it; I think I am seeing it. Sometimes we really don’t think about what we are doing. It is sad to me; what began as a movement to be right on something that doesn’t matter will undo everything a few Christians started some 1700 years ago, that really, really does matter, the birth of the Son.

     Tonight, when I plug in the lights on our tree, I will only think of the gift of the Son, He is the light of the world, and He died on the tree……for me.

“Light of the world, You stepped down into darkness, open my eyes let me see” Join me when I sing it on Sunday. Do you see….He is the reason for the season?

Merry Christmas.                                                                                                        Philip

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November 17, 2015, 2:14 PM

Do's and Don'ts



     It didn’t take long this past weekend for ISIS to declare and claim responsibility for the attack in Paris France. Some of you may have noticed, I have strong opinions on what we should do as Americans collectively with the rest of the world. I can honestly say I don’t really struggle with those ideas. I do struggle with what I should do as a Christian. How do we respond to these, seemingly unending events? 

     First, pray. Pray for the families, pray for Paris, pray for……this gets tougher, Muslims. Pray for our enemies. Of all the things we do, this one is truly unique to Christians. I admit it’s not easy, but Jesus calls us to do just that.

     Second, love the hurting. I know none of us are in France today. I do know this, there are Christians there loving those who have lost so many. From right here in Haskell, I can love the French. Paul tells us in his letter to some Italians, “rejoice with those who rejoice and mourn with those who mourn.”

     Third, we must love our enemies. Again, this is one of the things that make Christianity unique among the world’s religions. I admit it’s not my first natural reaction to events like these.  It IS what we are called to do anyway. Jesus says; "You have heard that it was said, 'Love your neighbor and hate your enemy’ But I tell you: Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, that you may be sons of your Father in heaven.” He didn’t say it was going to be easy; I just want to be a son of my Father in heaven.

 

     Those are at least three things we should do, there are at least three things we should not do.

     First, don’t hate. That is exactly what my human nature wants to do. I think it’s natural to feel anger, especially toward an evil we have absolutely no control over. We all remember when those things happened to us. It’s even come to our home this week. Maikel’s dad is scheduled to be in France this week to work, just north of Paris. These are the emotions that try to lead my soul to some really dark places. We can never hate and reach people at the same time. Pray for my heart to be protected from hate.

     Second, don’t take it out on the refugees. We still need, I believe to figure out a way to help the helpless. The “Good News” first says we are a people of compassion. Let’s be just that.

     Third, don’t mistake the real enemy. I believe all people need Jesus, Muslims, Hindus, atheists, and everyone else. Paul says, “Our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms.”

     It is times like this that I need the fruit of the Holy Spirit more than ever. What happened is horrible, but our story is bigger than this because it’s written by the author of life. That story ends with great realized hope. God help us all.                                                                                     Philip

 

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